Benson 3 Month 1 Week 5 Days Old ~ First Carseat Ride

Yesterday Hubby , Me & Benson went to Expo Baby Fair to get Benson Shampoo & Shower Bath.... Got a Shaver too... Means Benson will be Botak soon... this weekend will shave off his hair liao.... Because some of his hair is dropping... Finally Me & Hubby decided to fix his carseat after so long.. feel that is much safer this way... by right we should start from his Newborn... but the person who sell it to me say can use for newborn.. but we realise that it cannot put back facing carseat which is for smaller baby... so now then we start on it.... but Phew... he is quite ok in that... just a bit unhappy... but luckly not cry & wanna get out of it... haha... later u will see his piss off face in the photo i upload... is so funny.... Benson nowdays quite stick to me liao... maybe is because i took care of him 24/7.... without failed when he need me i will be there... so he is now more sticky... he will even cry just wanted me to carry him....Very cute la... but granny say next time will get more worst... if i wanna go out alone sure will cry badly de... =) we should see by then... Benson now know how to fake his anger liao... he is not crying... but nagging & shouting when he is unhappy...

Benson 3 month 1 week 2 day old

Yesterday when to expo for baby fair... jus bought a little bit of things for Benson... actually not much for me to buy also... if i buy too much i will have no hands to take also... haha... Because hubby is working... =( after that me, felz, jas, & ida.. went to Airport for lunch... then go home liao.. after reach home... about 8 pm.. me & hubby go for movie... ^^ Howdays Benson don't really wanna drink milk.. & ytd when we were out.. Benson cry badly while he is sleeping... Hmm... i wonder y everything when we go out he will cry de... maybe he knows that we r not home?? haha... anyway have been a tiring day ytd... & also benson keep waking up in the middle of the night... now feeling even more shag... hope i will get rest later when Benson nap...

Haha.. today caught Benson Biting on the Teddy Butt... haha...

There is something call Sacrifices

Some people might look down or think that stay home mummy is just a person who is lazy to work... wanna stay home as tai tai.... so let me make it clear for those who think this way... First ~ when a person thinks a stay home mum is like the above things that i wrote... that person must be having no kids or baby at the moment... & also they r just jealous about us.. not working.... sometime in life there is alot of things more important than money... some things money can't buy... Yes money is important... we cannot live without money... but money not everything.... it cannot buy u love , tender & care... for ur love ones & of course our baby... In the first few years of their life... is the most important part... that's y we chosen this path to fully take care of my own baby...i wan him to grow with lots of love that mummy & daddy could give.... even we know might be tough... & tiring... but is all worth it... if we choose to everyday work, work, work, earn money earn money...but my boy got no love... then we should not have even plan for a baby in the first place... because is selfish... children with no love when they r young tends to be more naughty than those who have been taken care by love.... So what i can say is there is always a sacrifices to be made... is a personal choice... & is a husband & wife choice... or i can say is also a parent choice... i see lots of mummy's quit their high paying job just to look after their own children... do u ever ask urself why they do this?? it may sound stupid to u... but yes.. there is lots of mummy who do that... is because they know that money cannot buy everything in their life...

So Funny....

Today i saw some post reply that is so funny... things already pass for a while liao... still wanna go dig out & talk... anyway God will know what they r doing... i will not get angry or upset about it.. because is just too wasting my time to do that... anyway 敢说不要怕人知道! .... hahaha.... never see such a funny person before... make me laugh till cannot stop liao... hahaha

& also how do u know i don't wanna find job to help my hubby? When u both got kids liao u will know y we chosen this path about me staying home to fully take care of Benson... who r u to comment about our life?? Anyway... not like u need to depend on ur gf to pay for ur installment for courts... shame on u... need to depend on ur gf money... anyway.. i don't step on u & u don't step on me... so don't dig up things to say... Now Me , Ben & Benson is living happily as a small family.. so please don't come & say anything anymore...

As for ur mum.... all along is Hubby driving her to doctor & help her when she is sick... What did u do as a brother? or i can say as a son?? when she call u.. u MIA... if not is u reject her call just because u owe her money... even a job u also stay not long.. keep on need ur mum to worry about u... Everytime hear her saying u lazy & always quit job... please do ur part as a son before u come & say my hubby.. or even me...  look at urself before u open ur mouth to say other people...

Benson 3 month 1 week 1 day old ~ Bumbo seat

Just got Benson Bumbo seat on Monday... =) is quite a good deal... buying at only $27... which is alot cheaper then actual price..But too bad is in green colour... =.= i actually wanted blue or purple... but is ok la.. as long as he can sit... haha... Now Benson still cannot really sit in there.. only just for a while now... with our hand supporting his neck & head.... but soon he will be able to sit in it by himself...

Not Feeling so well lately.. =(

I'm not feeling so well lately.. this might be the weather.. too hot for me... yesterday night when wanna to feed Benson at about 1.30am... i suddenly have very bad dizzy spell.... i feel that my house is spinning... my head suddenly feel so heavy... it scared me... cause i never feel this way before... the feeling is like when i'm drunk... =.= but i'm not drinking... In this afternoon i feel my body so weak... like a jelly lor.. haiz.. don't know what had happen to me... Nap i also cannot sleep... Night also... i try to sleep early... but will turn here & there for very long.... i hope i will get better soon... =) because i don't wanna fall sick & if not benson will get sick too...

The Dreamer

Benson is really a dreamer sometime... he will stare at some angle for a while... even when he sleep half way wake up... haha... last time i did posted something about his horoscope if u guys got follow my blog... what the horoscope say about Benson is quite true... Saying that he is born as a dreamer....  From this photo... u can see that he is actually day dreaming away... but half-asleep... haha....