Tricks & Treats

From the last post I have talk about how badly Benson cried when he is going school.... So We use a little Trick... Like promise him that we will bring him to sand play or playground if the weather allows us to do that... First day he think quite a bit before deciding to wear shoes... & I ensure him that if weather is good .. we will have fun after his school.. Hehe.. He board the bus without crying... & of course.. We did what we promised! & thanks to the weather too.. =) So we carrying on using it for 3~4 days... Till today.. no problem.. Hope I don't jinx it...

Finally My brave boy is not crying.. =) 

i don't know why... but this car that ah yi bought sure give him a sense of secure when he wanna go school...

Promise is a Promise... =) We bring him for sand play after school..

 

Changes?

After Chinese New Year, Is back to school days again... Benson first week in school is perfectly fine... But when school reopen after Cny... Nightmare begin... He cried badly... & He requested that he wanna to be on school bus.. So we engage school bus for him since he wanted it so much.. To be hones.. is damm exp! We are just staying maybe 2~3 bus stop away from his childcare center.. But guess how much we are paying for this ride? a full $130 ! I think is totally unreasonable pricing.. But anyway.. Since Benson wanted it.. We just engage for him... another reason is because is more easy on rainy days... At least we could pick him up at the shelter 1 block away from us... =)

I have been hearing a few days of whining & crying wanting mama in the morning.. & refused to wear his uniform.. So i have no choice but to let him wear his home clothes... =.= At least PE clothes he is still ok.. But is when he reaches school... Wearing shoes is a terrible thing in the morning... Because he refused.. Haha.. So advance about 10 mins i need to get him fully ready to be able to reached downstairs before the bus come.. Which is why having school bus is stressful too.. Because we are racing with time in order to be on time at the pick up area... Phew... Hehe...

I have seen some changes in Benson.. I don't know why after he goes to childcare.. He temper is getting bad & also he is more demanding... Hmm... Still alot of question mark in my head.. But of course i called up the school talking to the teacher in charge of Benson class & also his principle.. They did their best to call me & feedback to me about my worries & how Benson is doing in school... When Benson refused to goes to school makes me even more worry .. & alot of question start popping out in my head.. Was thinking is he unhappy in school? or did he not get along with his classmate? Or did teacher scream or scolded him badly? I really don't know.. Of course we do sit down with Benson to ask why he doesn't wanna go school.. He just reply say he wanna stay home with mama... Which maybe the reason is really that simple.. He just wanna stay home with me... I really do hope so... Strange part is... After school every time we will asked if he enjoyed school.. he will say yes... Till the very next morning when he is awake & preparing the whining & crying will sure start again... & Of course as a mother.. It breaks my heart.. & it sadden me to see that.. & also stressful for everyone too... Now i begin to wonder when will he stop crying & enjoy school? When we decided to put him into childcare.. I'm giving super lots of positive energy & also explain how school would be like.. But now.. I hope i still can be very positive to face this issue...

He is trying to help me clean up..

Valentine Day 2013

This time Hub Ben & I had our date without Benson because Valentine Day fall on a weekday... After Benson goes childcare.. We went for Brunch , Movie, Then to my requested Valentine present.. Which is Brazilian Wax... Is the first time i try this salon.. Normally i went to strip.. That lady that serve me is very friendly & fast.. Which is good.. is still gonna be painful but with skillful people to do it for it just makes it better... Hehe.. & Don't forget to breathe in & out while having it done.. =) I prefer this more than rose or flower.. Hehe... =) We enjoyed our day... After our dating session we went back home to fetch Benson...

 

 

 

 

 

 

" Love is Hard & It always will be , Whenever we had disagreement, it still hurts But That's a good sign that we still care for each other .. May Our love last forever , I love u dearly "

Chinese New Year ( Chu 3 )

On Chu 2 We didn't really go any visiting.. Only went to granny place to relax.. Hehe.. But on Chu 3 We went to Hub Frenz home for visiting... Every year... This home is a must to visit... =) Auntie is so nice.. She bring out some toys for Benson to get busy with... Hahaha.. We talked & gather.. In the mid Afternoon Benson is a little cranky due to sleepy i guess.. Because is after his nap time already & he hasn't nap at all.. After a little drama.. We went to granny place again.. Benson fell asleep on our way there..

On chu 2 We are trying our luck.. Haha... 

 

Benson Chu 3 Outfit.. Hehe..

 

Look at that Busy boy... LOL..

 

We are both Named " Wendy " Haha

Play cutting at granny place

Look at how serious can this boy be.. Hehe.. Chef in the making..

Our Baby wanna grow up so fast... He wanna do everything himself..

Spending time & Bonding As a Couple

Now after Benson had started his childcare & due to some reason.. Hub Ben is not working at the moment.. So we date quite a bit... Take it as bonding session for us... We will go for breakfast.. movie.. Walk around.. Of course spring clean for cny.. Is the best time to spring clean because we won't have a third hand messing up the place while we clean... Haha... oops... Our love grew so much during this break.. =) we have endless topic to talk about... Holding hands... Talk & giggle like any couple outside... Then we will go pick Benson up together..

Taking mrt to vivo... Do u see the glow in us? Haha...

Breakfast at Compass Point

Hub Fav

This Tom Yum Hor Fun is spicy!

My New Sunglasses...

Rainy Day

It has been a wet wet wet year... It rained almost daily! When it didn't rain.. The sun is super burning hot.. & That's explain why so many people is visiting the clinic... Because We already feeling the sore throat & stuffy nose.. This is a back dated post.. Hehe.. Because I was too excited to blog abt Chinese New Year Post.. So here it goes...

One rainy day.. I picked up Benson from school... I regretted not waiting for a cab & took a bus instead... As I'm confident that i can handle this.. Reached School.. Dress Benson up in his raincoat.. Then head to Bus stop... It rained super heavy! Even water slip in thru into the raincoat! I thought the sale person actually confirm that the water will not get thru the coat.. I was wrong to have trusted her... But anyway we waited at the bus stop... & the bus is freezing cold when we board! So scare that Benson will fell sick... I wrap him up with his blanket... Reached home.. Super shag... Haha... So.. Decided next time no more bus! When is rainy outside... =)

Benson enjoyed himself walking in the rain with his raincoat on.. Haha.. He was giggling all the way to bus stop... Cute max isn't it? Haha.. Childhood is fun.. Sometime we just wish that we can be like little children & play in the rain...

Very cute hor?